Assalamualikum warahmotullahi
TEN TIPS TO PLAN YOUR NIKKAH IN RAMADAN
A blessed month is once again upon us. Although weddings in Ramadan are not common there is nothing in Islam that forbids getting married during this time. In fact, you can pretty much get married on any day of the year unless it is forbidden in the mazhab (school) that one follows.
Ramadan is such a beautiful and holy month. A great time to not only strengthen ourselves, but our relationships as well. This is the perfect month for some major bonding time with your spouse.
Here are some ways that’ll strengthen your marriage during this blessed month.
In case you could not squeeze in a pre-Ramadan wedding and don’t want to
wait for a post-Ramadan wedding, here are ten tips to plan your Ramadan wedding.
It is more difficult now to plan a summer wedding because of the fact Ramadan is now during the summer months. If you find yourself not able to squeeze it in before Ramadan, and don’t want to wait until after, read on for some tips for the perfect Ramadan wedding.
Although the issues are more cultural, the most obvious issue is the fact that one cannot eat or drink from dawn to dusk. Along with that, married couples have to refrain from intercourse during the same hours. For the new couple if they feel they can control themselves and that this will not be an inconvenience, there is nothing wrong
with getting married in Ramadan.
Ramadan is such a beautiful and holy month. A great time to not only strengthen ourselves, but our relationships as well. This is the perfect month for some major bonding time with your spouse.
Here are some ways that’ll strengthen your marriage during this blessed month.
1. Have the Nikah just before Iftar.
2. It’s a great way to get the wedding to start on time. Nothing is worse than having a hungry guest.
3. You may need to accommodate traveling guests as they do not need to fast.
4. Have the Nikah at the masjid, it will be blessed and can make the logistics easy.
5. Serve dates and water (zam-zam is even better) to break the fast.
6. If you want to serve them give them appetizer
7. Pray the Maghrib prayer and make sure there are arrangements for women too.
8. Clean-up before dinner.
9. Have the reception at Iftar
10. It might be a good idea to hold the wedding towards the end of Ramadan, especially for the bew couple, then they can go off to their honeymoon.
👉Take a walk just before iftar. Avoid staring at the clock aimlessly and letting the hunger get to you. A nice stroll when the sun is just about to set will relax you and your spouse.
👉Have suhoor every morning together. Having a fulfilling breakfast with your spouse is the best way to start the day.
These are just suggestions. There are many things you and your spouse can do that can strengthen your bond with each other and with Allah (swt). Ramadan is a beautiful time, enjoy it and take advantage of it while you can insha Allah.
May Allah bless all marriages & put barakah in whatever they're doing, may Allah increase our married couples in love, faith, understanding & sabr.
May Allah grant the singles pious spouses. Ameen.
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But if you keep walking for sake of Allaah, you will start to walk through the most beautiful journey of your life..
Where every move of Nature will swing your heart into saying Alhamdulillah,
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Where strangers become your own family.
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Allaah.
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Your sins are replaced with good when you walk His way, And when you remember that, you fall on your knees begging Him never to let you go astray.
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👉Have a moment after taraweeh and isha prayer to sit and read Quran together. One can recite while the other listens, or switch off. This will allow you to help each other get closer to Allah (swt), because that is the most important relationship each and everyone of us has.
Have dinner/iftaar together and clean up together. This will strengthen your bond and allow you to work together as a team.
Try your best to pray every prayer together. What better way to strengthen your marriage than working together to get closer to Allah (swt)?